Zoom Meeting? Now what?!?!?

by Debbie Mascot (11/12/2025)

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Attending a talk on Zoom can be a great way to learn from experts, hear new ideas, and connect with others- all from the comfort of your home. To get the most out of the experience, it helps to prepare both your space and your Zoom settings. Here are some things to help you show up ready, confident, and engaged.

Make Sure Zoom Is Set Up and Ready

Before the event, take a few minutes to confirm that Zoom is working properly and that you have the latest version.  If you don’t have Zoom, you can download (or update) it here: zoom.us/download.

Sign in early:

If you don’t already have a Zoom account, create one ahead of time. Sign in at least 10 minutes before the event to avoid login delays.

Test your audio and video:
Open Zoom → click your profile picture → choose Settings → go to Audio and Video.

  • Click Test Speaker and Microphone to make sure you can hear and be heard.
  • Adjust your camera so your face is centered and well lit.

Create a Comfortable, Distraction-Free Space

Even as an attendee, your environment helps you focus and feel more engaged.

  • Find a quiet spot with minimal background noise. Close windows, silence your phone, and let others know you’ll be in a session.
  • Check your background: If your camera will be on, sit somewhere tidy and neutral. You can also use a Zoom virtual background by clicking the up arrow (^) next to the Start Video button → Choose Virtual Background.
  • Position your camera: Place your device at eye level and avoid backlighting (like sitting in front of a bright window).
  • Good lighting helps: A desk lamp or natural light in front of you works best.  The warm glow of your monitor can also add some nice lighting!

Join the Meeting

When it’s time for the talk, follow these steps to join smoothly:

  1. Click the Zoom link from your event invitation.
  2. If prompted, open the Zoom app (or click “Launch Meeting”).
  3. Enter the meeting ID and passcode if required.
  4. Select Join with Computer Audio when the prompt appears.
  5. If your video is on, check that your background and lighting look good before you join.

If the host has enabled a waiting room, you’ll see a message that says “Please wait, the host will let you in soon.” Just stay on that screen until admitted.

Know Your Zoom Controls

Familiarizing yourself with the toolbar helps you participate smoothly during the talk.

Here’s a quick rundown of key controls (usually at the bottom of your screen):

  • Mute/Unmute: Click the microphone icon to mute yourself when not speaking. Use the shortcut Alt + A (Windows) or Command + Shift + A (Mac).
  • Start/Stop Video: Click the camera icon to turn your video on or off.
  • Chat: Use the Chat button to send questions or comments to the host or panelists. Many talks will use this for Q&A.
  • Reactions: Click Reactions (smiley face icon) to give feedback, like a thumbs up or applause, without interrupting the speaker.
  • View Options: In the top-right corner, switch between Speaker View (best for talks) and Gallery View (best for discussions).
  • Leave Meeting: When the session ends, click Leave in the bottom-right corner.

Practice Good Zoom Etiquette

A smooth, respectful environment helps everyone enjoy the talk.

  • Join on time: Enter the meeting a few minutes early so the host can start promptly.
  • Mute when not speaking: This prevents your background noise from interrupting the talk.
  • Use your full name: It helps hosts identify attendees. You can rename yourself by clicking “Participants” → hover over your name → “Rename.”
  • Keep your video on (if requested): It shows engagement, but if bandwidth is low or you need privacy, turning it off is fine.
  • Avoid multitasking: Stay focused on the speaker to get the most from the session.
  • Use the chat wisely: Keep comments relevant to the discussion.

Engage and Take Notes

Zoom talks are more rewarding when you actively participate.

  • Take notes: Keep a notebook or open a document to jot down key ideas, quotes, or links shared.
  • Ask questions: If there’s a Q&A, raise your hand virtually by clicking Reactions → Raise Hand, or post your question in the Chat.
  • Follow along with shared materials: Presenters may share slides — you can adjust your View Options to see them clearly.
  • Use “Pin Video” if you want to keep the speaker’s video visible. Right-click their image → choose Pin Video.

After the Talk

Once the session ends, take a few moments to wrap up thoughtfully.

  • Leave the meeting politely: Click Leave Meeting (bottom-right).
  • Save the chat: If the host allows it, click the three dots (…) in the chat window → Save Chat to keep useful links or information.
  • Review your notes: Reflect on what you learned and how you can apply it.
  • Follow up: If the speaker shared contact info or resources, reach out or review their materials later.

Getting ready for a Zoom talk isn’t complicated, but being prepared makes a difference.  When WE are comfortable and ready to learn, our brains will be ready to absorb all that delicious genealogy info!

If you need any additional help with Zoom, please reach out.  I’m always happy to help you troubleshoot.

Helpful Links
Events: https://www.californiaancestors.org/events-and-education/
Special Interest Groups: https://www.californiaancestors.org/special-interest-groups-for-members/
Calendar view: https://www.californiaancestors.org/cgs_calendar/
Tips & Talk: Oakland FamilySearch Center Family History Classes: https://www.familysearch.org/en/centers/oakland_california/classes

 

Armistice Day.

by Debbie Mascot (11/10/2025)

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The end of World War I was at the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month in 1918.  Just 3 months later, my grandfather was born.  His uncle was off to war, encountering the mustard gas that he would suffer the effects from for years.

Before genealogy, I wouldn’t be able to tell you when WWI ended.  Now I have an anchor: Grampa’s birthday.  Before genealogy, I would only know a few veterans in my life.  Now I have many.  Genealogy doesn’t just bring us perspective on our own families, but also events of the past and how they fit.  And Armistice Day (now Veterans Day) is one of those events that makes me stop and think.

The agreement to stop fighting was signed between Germany and the Allied forces.  It was signed on a train car in France at 5:00 a.m. on November 11, 1918.  However, the fighting didn’t stop until 11:00 a.m.  nearly 3,000 soldiers died in those last hours, with Henry N. Gunther being the last American killed in the war.  He died one minute before the time of cease fire.

Henry Nicholas John Gunther was born on June 6, 1895 (just 6 months older than my great grandfather) in Baltimore, Maryland to George Gunther and Lina Roth, both children of German immigrants.  Henry was a bookkeeper and clerk at the bank and was in the Knights of Columbus, a Roman Catholic order.  He was drafted in September 1917 and assigned to the 313th Infantry Regiment, where he was promoted and then demoted when he complained of conditions in France.

On that final day, Henry approached a German roadblock in France and charged, despite knowing the war was ending in one minute.  The German soldiers tried to shoo him away, but he fired shots and was taken out instantly.

Henry was engaged before going off to war and who knows what his own family tree would look like if he had descendants like me.  My own great grandfather, only 6 months younger than Henry, had 5 children, 14 grandchildren, 29 great grandchildren, at least 30 great-great grandchildren, and several great-great-great grandchildren. Makes me realize how lucky I am to be here and to be able to have known my great-great grandfather.

 

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Helpful Links
Events: https://www.californiaancestors.org/events-and-education/
Special Interest Groups: https://www.californiaancestors.org/special-interest-groups-for-members/
Calendar view: https://www.californiaancestors.org/cgs_calendar/
Tips & Talk: Oakland FamilySearch Center Family History Classes: https://www.familysearch.org/en/centers/oakland_california/classes

 

Family Speaking Engagement

by Debbie Mascot (11/5/2025)

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Today I’m here to advertise a different genealogical society’s presentation because my it’s being given by family:
the grandfather of my 10th great uncle’s wife.  (Or, rather, someone in costume pretending to be him.)

On Saturday, November 15 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m Pacific Time, the San Luis Obispo County Genealogical Society will be presenting:

A customized speaking presentation: Mayflower Passenger, Stephen Hopkins (1581-1644), in costume and speech will discuss life in Plymouth in 1627, the First Thanksgiving, and how the Mayflower Compact was the basis for our U.S. Constitution.

A 17th century interpretive program by Richard Pickering, Deputy Executive Director, Chief Historian, Plimoth Patuxet Museums.

 

Saturday, November 15, 2025 from 10:00 a.m. to 12:00 p.m.
Free via Zoom
Register at www.slocgs.org under Events.
You will be sent a Zoom link two days before the event.

 

Helpful Links
Events: https://www.californiaancestors.org/events-and-education/
Special Interest Groups: https://www.californiaancestors.org/special-interest-groups-for-members/
Calendar view: https://www.californiaancestors.org/cgs_calendar/
Tips & Talk: Oakland FamilySearch Center Family History Classes: https://www.familysearch.org/en/centers/oakland_california/classes